To Lady Oliphant about the Marriage of Cousin. July 18. 1763.
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To L. O. about ye Marriage of Cou-
sin. July 18. 1763.
Forbes
To Lady Oliphant about the marriage of Cousin July 18. 1763
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Paragraph of letter to the Physician in Ordinary
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Forbes
Vol. 9, 1885—1886Paton
Vol. 3, 210Credits
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| Person | Lady Oliphant |
| Date | 18 Jul 1763 |
| Place | London |
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Copy of a Paragraph to the Physician in
ordinary: July 18. 1763.
As to the Marriage; good Mrs Whytt spoke
very seriously to me about it the Morning (June
28) she went from Edina, &and asked my Opinion.
I honestly, &and plainly told her, “that, in my humble
“Opinion, it was not in the Power of Man, as Mat-
“ters were circumstanced at present, to devise
“a better or wiser Match than an English one,
“all things fairly considered, &and weighed in the
“BallanceBalance of sober Reason”. This startled her
greatly. I then added, “that, to be sure, for Sound-
“ness &and Healthiness of Constitution, &cet cetera, &cet cetera, &cet cetera. I
“would prefer a Scots Match; but then, who
“would be so mad as to entertain such a Thought,
“as such an Event would evidently make Mat-
“ters worse &and worse still?” In a Word, I reason-
ed this particular point fully, &and the good Lady
came to see the Force of my Reasonings, &and the
Seasonableness of the Plan, could it be brought
to bear. She then urged the common Objection; but
I soon discussed that Point, by showing Her, that
this was truly a vulgar Error; as it was only Matter 1886 (1886)
Matter of Precedent, &and that there was no
Law in the Case. However, I desired, that my
Suggestion upon the interesting Point might
go for Nought; but that the Opinion of good
B.Bishop Gordoun should be taken about it; &and for
that End I gave a written Memorandum, ytthat
it might not be forgot; &and you see he heartily
approves; as indeed all sincere Friends must
see the Expediency of such a Measure, if they
will impartially take a View of the Whole,
&and not confine their Views to this or the oyrother
Particular. The Conversation ended wtwith saying,
“O Madam! if this same Confabulation be-
“tween you &and me should happily end in a
“real Match, how joyous should we be?”
“Ay; that is true indeed!” said she. — God
grant Success. — See pag. 1882. 1883. hujus.
very seriously to me about it the Morning (June
28) she went from Edina, &and asked my Opinion.
I honestly, &and plainly told her, “that, in my humble
“Opinion, it was not in the Power of Man, as Mat-
“ters were circumstanced at present, to devise
“a better or wiser Match than an English one,
“all things fairly considered, &and weighed in the
“BallanceBalance of sober Reason”. This startled her
greatly. I then added, “that, to be sure, for Sound-
“ness &and Healthiness of Constitution, &cet cetera, &cet cetera, &cet cetera. I
“would prefer a Scots Match; but then, who
“would be so mad as to entertain such a Thought,
“as such an Event would evidently make Mat-
“ters worse &and worse still?” In a Word, I reason-
ed this particular point fully, &and the good Lady
came to see the Force of my Reasonings, &and the
Seasonableness of the Plan, could it be brought
to bear. She then urged the common Objection; but
I soon discussed that Point, by showing Her, that
this was truly a vulgar Error; as it was only Matter 1886 (1886)
Matter of Precedent, &and that there was no
Law in the Case. However, I desired, that my
Suggestion upon the interesting Point might
go for Nought; but that the Opinion of good
B.Bishop Gordoun should be taken about it; &and for
that End I gave a written Memorandum, ytthat
it might not be forgot; &and you see he heartily
approves; as indeed all sincere Friends must
see the Expediency of such a Measure, if they
will impartially take a View of the Whole,
&and not confine their Views to this or the oyrother
Particular. The Conversation ended wtwith saying,
“O Madam! if this same Confabulation be-
“tween you &and me should happily end in a
“real Match, how joyous should we be?”
“Ay; that is true indeed!” said she. — God
grant Success. — See pag. 1882. 1883. hujus.
Citation
Forbes, Robert. “To Lady Oliphant about the marriage of Cousin July 18. 1763.” The Lyon in Mourning,
vol. 9,
Adv.MS.32.6.24, fol. 25r–25v. The Lyon in Mourning Project,
edited by Leith Davis, https://lyoninmourning.dhil.lib.sfu.ca/ v09.1885.01.html.